I love men. Most of my friends are men. I love how simple they are and how they do not take things personal all the time. How they give you honest answers, don’t sugarcoat, aren’t jealous of your new shoes or weight loss. Men seem worry free to me most of the time and I enjoy it. Women on the other hand, well being one I know how high-strung we can be.
My mom took this picture and it captures the essence of it all. They are fun, they don’t care, no worry in the world. They are children at heart that perform adult duties but have no problem chilling on the couch playing PS3 or hanging with their buddies, telling nasty stories and loving every second of it! I envy that sometimes. I am too worried about too many things all the time I can’t relax.
But are men really just simplistic creatures? They would definitely like to think so. Women would like to think so, but men are so much more. Yes, they take the easy way, when they tell you you look good, they mean it, when they say I don’t care then chances are they really don’t. Yet, there is so much more to men, deep layers that not everyone gets to see. Men are protectors, knights, heroes, lovers, fighters, big ole cuddle bears, they are sensitive and caring, loving and charmers and in reality just want their family and loved ones to be happy. They can’t show it of course, that would ruin the picture..
Men may appear superficial, wanting to date models and the like but really is it not what we think? We look at the nice guy and think aww he is such a good friend.. POW friend zoned.. then we move on to the guy that has the bad boy attitude with the tattoos who we already know, will break our heart. Then we go back and get comfort from the nice guy till the next bad boy comes along, all the while missing the best thing is right in front of us! So truthfully, why would any sane guy stay the nice guy.. I wouldn’t. Having to watch all the girls get taken by the other guys who have an air of I DON’T CARE. So they turn.. into what we don’t want and then women take the bait but now want the nice guy back.. way to confuse a guy. Revert back to simplistic creature who pretends sandwiches, beer, and sports make them just happy.
Men want what we want. Love, a family, friends, fun, excitement, companionship, good & intelligent conversation, beauty and the feeling to be needed. They are deep creatures and maybe because I am a woman and the concept of “I said you look pretty and I mean it just like that” is foreign to me, there is of course the option that I read too much into it all. But I do believe men have layers and if you are one of the few selected that gets to peel them back then you are lucky. Nothing sexier than a man who can open up and let you into his world beyond sandwiches, dirty jokes and sports.
I also love men with character.. and eyes..oh the eyes. Hope you enjoyed my rant of the day and the pictures. Do you feel the same? Or are men only 7 year olds that don’t have a worry in the world?
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